hun like you I was and still am scared. Every day is a different battle, not sure what advice to give you cos i'm not that great at helping myself. My Dh is always reassuring me and that helps me to feel better and start thinking positive. For me to "feel safe" Well somewhat I have become over cautious with everything especially food! so I don't recommend that. I tell myself that I just have to take it as it comes not like I can change the outcome IYKWIM, trust that your little one is safe inside you and growing strong. It definitely isn't easy!